Tue, 22 January 2019
I’m revisiting my interview with Chrystal Bougon – Owner & Resident Curvy Girl at Curvy Girl Inc and activist. We chat about feeling sexy at every size, reclaiming the word fat and the importance of sexual pleasure as self-care, plus I answer a listener question on fat oppression and eating disorder recovery. In this episode, we chat about: - I answer a listener question fat oppression and eating disorder recovery, - What loving your body means to Chrystal, - The spark that fired her up to start Curvy Girl Lingerie, - Why she identifies as a fat woman and the importance of reclaiming that word, - The importance of asking for what you want in the bedroom and how this empowered Chrystal to be kinder and truer to herself, - The power of asking for what you want in the bedroom and life, - Your life is happening now, not 10 pounds from now – don’t put it on hold, - Why it’s a discipline to work on your inner confidence and compassion, - Why both Chrystal and I still have bad body days and how we deal with those, - Her motto “Sexy is for every body!” and how you can embody sexiness, - How she responds to people who say she is “glorifying obesity,” - The way fat people are portrayed in the media and how this perpetuates size stigma, Plus so much more! |
Tue, 8 January 2019
I’m revisiting my interview with my friend and colleague, Vivienne McMaster - creator of Be Your Own Beloved. We chat about how you can heal negative body image through selfies and choose compassion over critique in photos and I’ll be answering a listener question on body acceptance and aging. In this episode, we chat about: - I answer a listener question navigating body acceptance and aging, - How Vivienne used photography to heal her body image and change her negative stories, - How long it took Vivienne to start to see her body in a loving way through photography, - What it really feels like to “love your body” and why there isn’t a “self-love” party at the end of it, - Selfies are so much more than arm’s length photos, - How to start seeing your photos through a loving and compassionate lens, - What to do if you typically avoid photos or find them triggering, - How to begin to love pieces of you where you normally direct hate, - Are we really so much more than a body? - Simple ways for you to start embracing what you see in the photo and use selfies as a tool of healing on your body image journey, - How to overcome fear around taking selfies and why they are not narcissistic, Plus so much more! |